From doing laundry at Arsenal to becoming Canada coach, Casey Stoney paid her dues

After helping build cultures as the inaugural coach of both the Manchester United women and the NWSL’s San Diego Wave, Casey inherits a Canadian team that has forged a welcoming culture of its own over the years with the likes of Sinclair, Karina LeBlanc, Diana Matheson, Sophie Schmidt, Desiree Scott and others leading the way.

“One of the real reasons I was really interested in the job was how much I had heard about the positive culture — the humility of the people, the hard work,” said Stoney, who coached Canadian No. 1 goalkeeper Kailen Sheridan at San Diego.

Aware of what the Canadian players went through last year in the wake of the Olympic drone-spying scandal that cost Bev Priestman her job as coach, Stoney says she will support that culture “and just try and give the players trust back a little bit and move forward.”

Stoney herself has come a long way.

After her parents divorced when she was six, Stoney and her brother lived with their mother, who had three jobs to make ends meet.

Stoney threw herself into football and was good at it. When the family moved to London, she played for a boys’ team and was named the players’ player of the season.

In 1994, at age 12, she joined Chelsea. She had to pay to play there, three pounds (now $5.30) on a training night and five pounds ($8.80) on match day.

In 1999, she moved to Arsenal where she worked part-time in the laundry “washing the men’s kit” to help pay the bills while playing soccer.

“I was part of a generation where we didn’t earn any money out of the game. So you always had to have a job,” she said.

“But I’m really pleased I went through that era,” she added. “Because I think I’ve got the work ethic I’ve got now because I had to get up at 4:30 in the morning and train before I did a full day’s work or do a full day’s work and then go training. So for me, coming into management, it’s hard work, it’s a hard job. But it’s nothing I haven’t been doing for so many years.”

Stoney reckons she has coached for the last 25 years including the under-10 and under-12- sides when she was a teenager at Arsenal.

“I’ve earned my stripes, as they say,” she said.

A defender, Stoney went on to play for Chelsea, Lincoln, Arsenal again and Liverpool. On the international front, she won 130 caps for England before retiring in 2018 and joining the staff of then-England women’s manager Phil Neville.

There was good and bad along the way.

At the 2005 UEFA Women’s Championship, she sat on the bench and considered retiring.

While playing for Charlton Ladies, she won the FA Cup and the Premier League Cup only to see the team fold in 2007 in a cost-cutting move after the men’s team were relegated from the Premier League.

At Chelsea, defender John Terry paid for the women’s tracksuits after the club would only provide “hand-me-downs from one of the academy teams.”

She kept at soccer but thought long and hard about the need for a steady income. Two days before the 2009 Euros final against Germany, she got a call to say she had been accepted as a firefighter.

But her father urged her to keep playing, pointing out work could wait but football couldn’t. And a cousin, who was a firefighter, warned her that getting time off to play might depend on just how much her station manager liked women’s football.

So she kept playing.

Stoney learned she had lost the English captaincy when she heard it on TV. As a result, as a coach, she has canvassed her players on exactly how they like to learn about whether they are in the starting lineup for games.

Stoney is not about to ask her players to do something she wouldn’t do herself. At Manchester United, as part of a team-building exercise with her players to face their fears, she had someone bring in “huge snakes, giant-sized cockroaches and tarantulas.”

“I’m really not a fan of spiders at all,” she said. “So showing vulnerability in front of my players and holding a tarantula was terrifying, but at the same time they got to see a human side of me and I got to see a human side of them.”

She has faced other difficulties as a manager, not of her own making.

She quit Manchester United in 2021 after leading the team to promotion to the top tier in the first year and then consecutive fourth-place finishes. But she had had enough of a lack of proper training facilities and broken promises.

And she was fired by San Diego last June while attending a funeral in England. That meant the immediate cancellation of her work visa, uprooting her family. Stoney and partner Megan Harris, a former Lincoln teammate, have 10-year-old twins (a boy and a girl) and a seven-year-old son.

“It effectively made us homeless overnight as a family, stuck in the U.K. without a home,” she said. “Once you’ve been through that to be honest, I think you can pretty much face everything.”

The experience, while horrible, did not extinguish her desire to coach.

“What it has done is make sure that I am in an organization that’s led with people with principles and values … I feel very strongly that I’m in the position I should be in right now.

“And everything happens for a reason.”

Working as consultant for another team allowed Stoney to regain her U.S. visa and the family returned to their San Diego home four months later. Stoney plans to keep the family there for the time being, so the kids can continue in school with their friends.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Jan. 16, 2025

Neil Davidson, The Canadian Press

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From doing laundry at Arsenal to becoming Canada coach, Casey Stoney paid her dues

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