Death with dignity – Pete got his wish
LETHBRIDGE — On the morning of the day Peter (‘Pete’) Craig chose to die, the comings and goings of family and friends warmed his heart and home. They sat with him in his room, reminisced and said their last goodbyes. And, of course, there were tears. Lots of tears.
When the hour came for the Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) physician to start the procedure that would end Peter’s life, the visitors had gone home. Earlier that day, they had gathered in a vacant suite just down the hall from Pete’s. Family and friends had coffee, swapped stories and took turns spending one-on-one time with him. Some people who have MAID want loved ones around them for the actual event, but Peter chose to be alone with the doctor and MAID team (‘event’ is the word used when referring to the actual date and hour of the procedure).
“Peter was funny, like funny ha-ha,” recalls his sister, Penny Craig. “Even the MAID team thought so, telling us, his family, that they’d always remember and appreciate his sense of humour. Most had shared a chuckle or two with Pete at some point along the way. For example, several days before his event, a scheduling question had come up. Someone had emailed him about it, and his reply was ‘I don’t know, I’ve never died before.…’
The urn of Peter ‘Pete’ Craig who chose to die May 6, 2017 through AHS’ Medical Assistance in Dying program.